According to surveys, over 70% of men say that they could fall in love with Hollywood stars. It is fair to say that we like Brad Pitt and George Clooney, but we live with the most common and, incidentally, very even beloved husbands. However, as the saying goes, knowledge - force, and instead of being jealous of his righteous to film star, it is better to use this information to their own benefit.
In fact, most men do not attract external data, and psychological characteristics of certain facial features.
Appearance 1 - Blonde in chocolate. Gentlemen Prefer Blondes! Is a fact. And a blonde - it's not hair color and even a diagnosis (according to statistics, women with blond hair often succeeding in their careers, than a brunette). Blonde - a way of relating to life. If your husband is crazy about Marilyn Monroe, so it attracts the immediacy, multiplied by the coquetry. What? It's easier to relate to life and, strangely enough, allow ourselves to be capricious. Remember: when the last time he led you to a cafe without any reason, to feed the cake? When he bought you a new dress? And you, among others, deserve it! Hint at this, not only through loud hysterics, and insinuating voice. If you break plumbers do not be sufficient once for wrench - make a helpless expression on his face and pat lashes! Remember the already somewhat forgotten technique recklessly flirt and flirt with your own husband - he will appreciate it.
Appearance 2 - a teenage girl. This Position typically involves not too self-confident men. In ordinary life, they are likely to occupy a passive position and often henpecked. Perhaps they are even convenient to this state of things, though I sometimes want to feel as an active partner, the care of his carefree young girl. What? Let him take the initiative. Change the script will breath of fresh air in your relationship. Stop herself to plan the weekend and put her husband before the fact: "We need to buy wallpaper, go to the market and get out." Ask him: "What will we do on Sunday?". Imagine that you are once again carefree little girl. You'll be surprised how quickly your spouse join in this game and will finally make their own decisions, because he so wants to be head of the family!
Appearance 3 - Luxury woman. Men like beautiful royal ladies. And it is absolutely normal. Sophia Loren or Elizabeth Taylor is the embodiment of femininity. It attracts men. The fashion for unisex comes and goes, and femininity has been and will be popular at all times. What? Learn to listen to yourself. We are so accustomed to live in a world where the rights of the sexes are equal, that seems to have forgotten: our main purpose - to be loved and cherished woman, not a strict boss or colleagues. Remember that you are actually soft and gentle, mysterious and compelling. Find time for yourself: sign up to the cabin, change the hair, buy a new dress. Learn to accept compliments for granted, to develop in a royal posture. Hint that expect an invitation to a restaurant or an opera.
Appearance 4 - The charming simpleton. This often attracts like. If your husband is crazy about active, laughing girls, who may be at the meeting of shareholders, and in the bar, and in exploration - most likely, he himself was a fairly simple and open person. Perhaps he lacks the sincere conversations. Or maybe you do not always understand his humor? Either way, you should slightly change. What? Keep it simple. Even if a child, while your future husband was playing in the yard, you taught English and repeated the gamut - that is no reason to play "princess and the swineherd." Go down from the heavens and the earth share the joy with her husband. Instead of once again lead him to the theater, prepare dinner and watch a comedy together. Invite him to a bar on the nuts and beer. In the end, to go fishing! You'll see - you will like it too.
Appearance 5 - My second mum. Powerful and bright like the older women are either too active at work for men (at least at home they need to delegate authority), or infantile "mama's little boy." Such men see the wife homemakers. Ideally, it should solve all the problems yourself and do not "load" their husbands. What? Do not accept the role of "second mother" literally. No need to take on his frail shoulders absolutely care of the house. Your task - to show the wife that you are partners, which means he can always count on you. Sometimes it is useful to bring the situation under control and make life easier for myself and him.
пятница, 26 марта 2010 г.
Technique of dating
The main thing in dating technique - if possible avoid templates! Unfortunately, the vast majority of men (90%) are introduced to impropriety primitive, like this: "What is the weather, give your phone, eh?"
Women appreciate a man above all, the mind and banal beginning of "Girl, what's your name?" driving it in the corner of his straightforwardness and squalor a little ingenuity - and you are interested in vending you lady.
It is noticed that a good impression on a woman produces, when a man gives her his own, a business card. This element of business ethics, brought to the household ground meets a woman's curiosity and acts better than words.
7 styles of courtship
1. "Pigeon". We must deliberately take care of a woman in front of everybody, not paying attention to others, how to care for the dove dove. This behavior underscores the value of women and at the same time stresses your serious intentions.
2. "Short-term escape (5-7 days). After a long, active courting her stop to visit her and call her. Accustomed to a man's attention, a woman can not do without it, she will miss you, and it would reproach himself for coolness to you. Yes, and how to respond to questions venomous girlfriends about your absence? "Threw"-a shame, "chased away"-prematurely, and suddenly come back? Typically, after the return to her woman becomes much more merciful.
3. "The Friend". If it is not too much to you is, then, starting an active courtship of her girlfriend, you can dramatically change its attitude towards you. Then all her entourage talking about you and it certainly will bolster her self-esteem. She wants to show her friends that she was not worse than them, and when it is desired, you will not care for someone, but for her. Besides, she thinks: "If everyone is talking about it, then perhaps there is something there.
4. Even better, if you are able to draw her best friend, who prozhuzhzhit her about you all ears. Emotional outpourings girlfriend inflame her imagination. You will be very even indifferent to it. Realizing that goal is reached, speaking with her.
5. "Sufferer". Permanent express their suffering to people around her sympathy for their cause, reproaches against her and cause her to question her attitude to you. Rarely some tenderhearted Slavic soul will not condemn a woman for her inaccessibility. Especially this method is good when we must win the consent of the woman in marriage.
6. "Feeding". At each meeting, bring a woman flowers, or a pleasant trifle, or something delicious that she loved (sweets, cakes, etc.). Then she elaborated a conditioned reflex - a positive attitude to your presence and his expectation.
7. "Incomparable." Its essence is the same as that of the previous use, but instead of the tangible things you are giving it to their attention (her admiration, compliments, manners). Very often, it works much better subject of gifts, especially where there is material wealth, but lack of attention to the woman.
Several varieties of dating depending on the situation
Option 1
Choose a time when a woman is not very busy, and the place where you could enter into contact with it. Women are not very daring, so have her to talk with you. Check with her eye contact and give her time to bring in order of their appearance and mental attitude to your courtship. Some question, meaningless phrase and unleash it, let get used to your voice and communicate with you. Then Start a conversation about anything. Topic of conversation may be the most banal, you only need to at least say something and not to destroy the weak contact, painful silence. Speak in the manner that you can most easily (playful, rustic, tragic, meaningful ...). Complimented her appearance, and if she engaged in a conversation, and her erudition. How would the way tell her a little about yourself and discreetly let her feel your dignity. In order to awaken her maternal instinct, you cried a little - you can visit on their own difficulties. Introduce yourself, tell them your name and profession. Invite her to the theater, a concert, for a walk. In case of refusal to ask her: "And maybe see you tomorrow (in the afternoon ...)? When?" Ask her to leave you my phone number or address where you can find. When the temptation to use the categorical refusal to time - offer your ( "Well, then take me, I beg you !.."). to accompany her to the place to which it is directed. Trains come into contact as often as possible. The only way to get ease and acquaintances. Suppose that even without further acquaintance, but for the sake of training. Including people of your sex: training singles - "on a complicated program, because men are in contact much harder than women. The reward, except for training, will be and the possible introduction, and even friendships with interesting people.
Option 2
Bear with a flower. Give him one, which would like to meet. Unsubscribe from the colors a woman can not. But taking a flower, she is obliged to you for this generous and beautiful gesture. Also irresistible, this option is good in that only one of 500 men to begin acquaintance in this way. Avoid mistakes, you will appear in a favorable light. By the way, according to Freud, flowers - a symbol of the union of male and female elements. Maybe that's why women love flowers, especially if they are donated to a man?
Option 3 (acquaintance on the phone)
If you are not ready for personal acquaintance, that option - the best. After all day on the street, a woman, perhaps, will not listen to reason, a large employment, but at home, in a calm atmosphere, it will not refuse to listen, even boredom. The phone gives an excellent opportunity to overcome the psychological barrier between you. Especially if you are afraid of displeasing appearance. At the beginning of the conversation should introduce themselves and tell a little about yourself. Be sure to praise her voice "pleasant", "melodic", "like a bell", "exciting". Say that admire it from a distance, but are afraid to come, the beauty of her movements, gestures, etc. Call preferably in the evening, at the same time, when it is free. Instilling in her a conditioned reflex to your call, that it was essential to her before bedtime, like a good fairy tale children. If you can draw her a sense that you feel to it (the feeling carries any woman), then it will be very difficult to deny you a personal acquaintance, even of compassion.
Option 4 ( "Secretary")
Help women - bring to things, to repair something, etc. provides a rare opportunity to get acquainted with her. This option is almost a win. First, because they want to help someone so small that they may in the future will mummify and display in museums. She will be greatly surprised and delighted that she has got such a rare specimen. Secondly, it would be flattered that you have helped it to her. It may also happen is that you did not like her at first, but its practicality, the ability to exploit you make her suffer your presence. Your task - do not miss a moment and try to win. . If she says that it needs no help, then tell us surprise and indignation of her attitude to her precious body ( "I do not mind if you're so fragile ... and do not have to carry heavy bags ... you probably husband cares! "At the same time find out if he had it.) For women, even very strong, love to be fragile. "You can be angry with me, but I'll still help you!" Deny it to you or not - is not so important, the main thing - you join her in contact, and can only sustain a conversation.
Option 5 ( "helper")
Established that if a person is a man made a good B, then A to B begins to better treat. The psychological basis for this is: every time he saw B, A remembers the good things that he did, and aware of itself a good, kind man. This raises his self-esteem, and therefore the mood. Thus, B becomes a source of positive emotions. This phenomenon can be used for dating, organizing help themselves by an attractive man. "Girl, please do not fail, urgently need to call, and phone card is over" (or "tokens no" - in different cities in different ways). And, after talking briefly: "The tremendous thank you. Now I'm your debtor. Allow me to return to duty: when and where can I find you?" And you want in a movie or a bar that you interesting? .. Or the theater? " Even if it is not enthusiastic about such dating, do you cruelly to her conscience would not allow, because it is obliged to you. Then, already on the Rights of an old friend you can feel free to ask her to re-interview
Option 6 (public transport)
You can often hear the assertion that the psychological atmosphere of public transport does not have to acquaintance. On the contrary, it is there to do it the easiest. Subway, bus, boat ... - Places where you can easily get acquainted with the woman. Do not be afraid that your conversation someone eavesdrops on the woman that he does not become less enjoyable. If you do not dare to meet her in the transport, then go out with her at the bus stop and apply something from that, what we have already said.
Option 7 (cultural events)
Begin looking for a woman better before the event. At the counter or at the entrance to try to get in touch with the one you liked, and then act on any of the options or environment-related event. Show your generosity, try to buy souvenirs, refreshments, program, flowers - from the fact that as possible. After the presentation helped women to get dressed and accompany her to the house, exchanged phone numbers.
Option 8 (a plyazhe)
Do not be afraid to approach (sit) and speak with a woman, even if it makes an indifferent expression on his face. A lone woman on the beach is always happy to male attention, because of its isolation does not speak in its favor. Views of others should not be given importance. Other men might not mind doing the same thing, but you beat them, and women may simply jealous rival. The beach is particularly appropriate to speak about women's charms (the beauty of figure, an amazing tan, soft skin, etc.).
Warning Beach - a parade of the physical beauty of the body, both female and male. All the advantages and disadvantages of body and not hidden clothes - there. So if you have a good (and even more excellent) figure - God himself commands familiar on the beach. They help to become acquainted interesting article, which you propose to read, and exchanged views on it. Invaluable assistance can have a crossword puzzle, in fact almost all women love to solve. Women appreciate intelligence - ability to show it! Card games, ice cream treats or soft drinks. On the sand easy to play "tic-tac-toe." Any game - is a convenient way to explore. The game reveals a person as a person.
Option 9 (restaurant, cafe, anniversary ...)
Given the state of light intoxication among the visitors to such places and events, is not recommended for long ignore you like a woman. Otherwise, take her to remain without fear cavalier and excitement, involving women in such cases, another man can steal it from you from under his nose. "Brute" - the best way to heart of women in such places! Do not give her time to recover, invite to dance and express my admiration for her appearance, movements, etc. After the dance she did not offer to sit down and dance once again, stand with her in front of everybody with a satisfied air. This immediately demoralize your opponents. Be demonstrative gallantry. Flowery speech acts on its relaxed alcohol awareness of the strongest manner. Invite her (with a girlfriend) at her desk, order her champagne. Very well, if you potantsuete with her girlfriend, who can tell you about it a lot of interesting, and about myself too. With less profitable one, it is always profitable to tell the other. If at least one of her friends got carried away by you or your friend, then the evening would have been continued.
Option 10
This is when a woman just bought for money. This option is for us the most uninteresting, so will confine ourselves to the next story.
Morning. A man comes to the mirror. Views: mug blue, his hair on end, prune belly, ears, burdock, one leg shorter than the other. Looks - behind his back in bed asleep leggy beauty. The man said reflectively:
- It's necessary because the money to love ...
Women appreciate a man above all, the mind and banal beginning of "Girl, what's your name?" driving it in the corner of his straightforwardness and squalor a little ingenuity - and you are interested in vending you lady.
It is noticed that a good impression on a woman produces, when a man gives her his own, a business card. This element of business ethics, brought to the household ground meets a woman's curiosity and acts better than words.
7 styles of courtship
1. "Pigeon". We must deliberately take care of a woman in front of everybody, not paying attention to others, how to care for the dove dove. This behavior underscores the value of women and at the same time stresses your serious intentions.
2. "Short-term escape (5-7 days). After a long, active courting her stop to visit her and call her. Accustomed to a man's attention, a woman can not do without it, she will miss you, and it would reproach himself for coolness to you. Yes, and how to respond to questions venomous girlfriends about your absence? "Threw"-a shame, "chased away"-prematurely, and suddenly come back? Typically, after the return to her woman becomes much more merciful.
3. "The Friend". If it is not too much to you is, then, starting an active courtship of her girlfriend, you can dramatically change its attitude towards you. Then all her entourage talking about you and it certainly will bolster her self-esteem. She wants to show her friends that she was not worse than them, and when it is desired, you will not care for someone, but for her. Besides, she thinks: "If everyone is talking about it, then perhaps there is something there.
4. Even better, if you are able to draw her best friend, who prozhuzhzhit her about you all ears. Emotional outpourings girlfriend inflame her imagination. You will be very even indifferent to it. Realizing that goal is reached, speaking with her.
5. "Sufferer". Permanent express their suffering to people around her sympathy for their cause, reproaches against her and cause her to question her attitude to you. Rarely some tenderhearted Slavic soul will not condemn a woman for her inaccessibility. Especially this method is good when we must win the consent of the woman in marriage.
6. "Feeding". At each meeting, bring a woman flowers, or a pleasant trifle, or something delicious that she loved (sweets, cakes, etc.). Then she elaborated a conditioned reflex - a positive attitude to your presence and his expectation.
7. "Incomparable." Its essence is the same as that of the previous use, but instead of the tangible things you are giving it to their attention (her admiration, compliments, manners). Very often, it works much better subject of gifts, especially where there is material wealth, but lack of attention to the woman.
Several varieties of dating depending on the situation
Option 1
Choose a time when a woman is not very busy, and the place where you could enter into contact with it. Women are not very daring, so have her to talk with you. Check with her eye contact and give her time to bring in order of their appearance and mental attitude to your courtship. Some question, meaningless phrase and unleash it, let get used to your voice and communicate with you. Then Start a conversation about anything. Topic of conversation may be the most banal, you only need to at least say something and not to destroy the weak contact, painful silence. Speak in the manner that you can most easily (playful, rustic, tragic, meaningful ...). Complimented her appearance, and if she engaged in a conversation, and her erudition. How would the way tell her a little about yourself and discreetly let her feel your dignity. In order to awaken her maternal instinct, you cried a little - you can visit on their own difficulties. Introduce yourself, tell them your name and profession. Invite her to the theater, a concert, for a walk. In case of refusal to ask her: "And maybe see you tomorrow (in the afternoon ...)? When?" Ask her to leave you my phone number or address where you can find. When the temptation to use the categorical refusal to time - offer your ( "Well, then take me, I beg you !.."). to accompany her to the place to which it is directed. Trains come into contact as often as possible. The only way to get ease and acquaintances. Suppose that even without further acquaintance, but for the sake of training. Including people of your sex: training singles - "on a complicated program, because men are in contact much harder than women. The reward, except for training, will be and the possible introduction, and even friendships with interesting people.
Option 2
Bear with a flower. Give him one, which would like to meet. Unsubscribe from the colors a woman can not. But taking a flower, she is obliged to you for this generous and beautiful gesture. Also irresistible, this option is good in that only one of 500 men to begin acquaintance in this way. Avoid mistakes, you will appear in a favorable light. By the way, according to Freud, flowers - a symbol of the union of male and female elements. Maybe that's why women love flowers, especially if they are donated to a man?
Option 3 (acquaintance on the phone)
If you are not ready for personal acquaintance, that option - the best. After all day on the street, a woman, perhaps, will not listen to reason, a large employment, but at home, in a calm atmosphere, it will not refuse to listen, even boredom. The phone gives an excellent opportunity to overcome the psychological barrier between you. Especially if you are afraid of displeasing appearance. At the beginning of the conversation should introduce themselves and tell a little about yourself. Be sure to praise her voice "pleasant", "melodic", "like a bell", "exciting". Say that admire it from a distance, but are afraid to come, the beauty of her movements, gestures, etc. Call preferably in the evening, at the same time, when it is free. Instilling in her a conditioned reflex to your call, that it was essential to her before bedtime, like a good fairy tale children. If you can draw her a sense that you feel to it (the feeling carries any woman), then it will be very difficult to deny you a personal acquaintance, even of compassion.
Option 4 ( "Secretary")
Help women - bring to things, to repair something, etc. provides a rare opportunity to get acquainted with her. This option is almost a win. First, because they want to help someone so small that they may in the future will mummify and display in museums. She will be greatly surprised and delighted that she has got such a rare specimen. Secondly, it would be flattered that you have helped it to her. It may also happen is that you did not like her at first, but its practicality, the ability to exploit you make her suffer your presence. Your task - do not miss a moment and try to win. . If she says that it needs no help, then tell us surprise and indignation of her attitude to her precious body ( "I do not mind if you're so fragile ... and do not have to carry heavy bags ... you probably husband cares! "At the same time find out if he had it.) For women, even very strong, love to be fragile. "You can be angry with me, but I'll still help you!" Deny it to you or not - is not so important, the main thing - you join her in contact, and can only sustain a conversation.
Option 5 ( "helper")
Established that if a person is a man made a good B, then A to B begins to better treat. The psychological basis for this is: every time he saw B, A remembers the good things that he did, and aware of itself a good, kind man. This raises his self-esteem, and therefore the mood. Thus, B becomes a source of positive emotions. This phenomenon can be used for dating, organizing help themselves by an attractive man. "Girl, please do not fail, urgently need to call, and phone card is over" (or "tokens no" - in different cities in different ways). And, after talking briefly: "The tremendous thank you. Now I'm your debtor. Allow me to return to duty: when and where can I find you?" And you want in a movie or a bar that you interesting? .. Or the theater? " Even if it is not enthusiastic about such dating, do you cruelly to her conscience would not allow, because it is obliged to you. Then, already on the Rights of an old friend you can feel free to ask her to re-interview
Option 6 (public transport)
You can often hear the assertion that the psychological atmosphere of public transport does not have to acquaintance. On the contrary, it is there to do it the easiest. Subway, bus, boat ... - Places where you can easily get acquainted with the woman. Do not be afraid that your conversation someone eavesdrops on the woman that he does not become less enjoyable. If you do not dare to meet her in the transport, then go out with her at the bus stop and apply something from that, what we have already said.
Option 7 (cultural events)
Begin looking for a woman better before the event. At the counter or at the entrance to try to get in touch with the one you liked, and then act on any of the options or environment-related event. Show your generosity, try to buy souvenirs, refreshments, program, flowers - from the fact that as possible. After the presentation helped women to get dressed and accompany her to the house, exchanged phone numbers.
Option 8 (a plyazhe)
Do not be afraid to approach (sit) and speak with a woman, even if it makes an indifferent expression on his face. A lone woman on the beach is always happy to male attention, because of its isolation does not speak in its favor. Views of others should not be given importance. Other men might not mind doing the same thing, but you beat them, and women may simply jealous rival. The beach is particularly appropriate to speak about women's charms (the beauty of figure, an amazing tan, soft skin, etc.).
Warning Beach - a parade of the physical beauty of the body, both female and male. All the advantages and disadvantages of body and not hidden clothes - there. So if you have a good (and even more excellent) figure - God himself commands familiar on the beach. They help to become acquainted interesting article, which you propose to read, and exchanged views on it. Invaluable assistance can have a crossword puzzle, in fact almost all women love to solve. Women appreciate intelligence - ability to show it! Card games, ice cream treats or soft drinks. On the sand easy to play "tic-tac-toe." Any game - is a convenient way to explore. The game reveals a person as a person.
Option 9 (restaurant, cafe, anniversary ...)
Given the state of light intoxication among the visitors to such places and events, is not recommended for long ignore you like a woman. Otherwise, take her to remain without fear cavalier and excitement, involving women in such cases, another man can steal it from you from under his nose. "Brute" - the best way to heart of women in such places! Do not give her time to recover, invite to dance and express my admiration for her appearance, movements, etc. After the dance she did not offer to sit down and dance once again, stand with her in front of everybody with a satisfied air. This immediately demoralize your opponents. Be demonstrative gallantry. Flowery speech acts on its relaxed alcohol awareness of the strongest manner. Invite her (with a girlfriend) at her desk, order her champagne. Very well, if you potantsuete with her girlfriend, who can tell you about it a lot of interesting, and about myself too. With less profitable one, it is always profitable to tell the other. If at least one of her friends got carried away by you or your friend, then the evening would have been continued.
Option 10
This is when a woman just bought for money. This option is for us the most uninteresting, so will confine ourselves to the next story.
Morning. A man comes to the mirror. Views: mug blue, his hair on end, prune belly, ears, burdock, one leg shorter than the other. Looks - behind his back in bed asleep leggy beauty. The man said reflectively:
- It's necessary because the money to love ...
How to recognize mutual sympathy
Learn to read the gestures that say that you like and do not be afraid to show his sympathy!
As you know, men and women use a wide range of gestures in the process of courtship. Most gestures doing unconsciously, purely by reflex. The success of romantic relationships with the opposite sex depends on how you are able to delicately give signals and perceive the ones that sent to you.
Raised eyebrows. When we see an attractive object for us human, our eyebrows begin raising and falling. If this person also feels drawn, his eyebrows are also beginning to jump up and down. This movement is about a fifth of a second, but it is always and everywhere, at any age, from a representative of either sex. The fact that raised eyebrows make eyes with a review, and the eye itself - bright, attractive and open. This "shooting" eyes easily slips from sight, but if you catch it, the guarantee of sympathy to you one hundred percent. And if the intention is to lengthen the period of "shot" even one second, then a nice object you are more likely to get your "message".
Slightly opened lips. If you liked the other person, his / her lips slightly open automatically at a time when you meet eyes.
Slightly expanded nostrils. Raised eyebrows, parted lips and dilated nostrils - within reason - give the person an open friendly expression. In the excited state and indicates the appearance of redness on the cheeks.
Obviously, if you met the subject with bulging eyes, protruding jaw and swollen nostrils, it's not good. But if a man listens to a woman with smooth brow and calm, slightly hooded eyes, this is also a bad sign: most likely, he is bored.
Standing at attention. It is understood Hmm, that man is right, squaring his shoulders, plunging the stomach, then he tries to show itself in all its glory. If he leans forward to listen to a woman, it is doubly good.
Feet shoulder-width apart. This is not a bad education, it is a sign of sexual affection. And it does not depend on whether a person is sitting or standing. Men often strive to sit down, legs wide apart: so often they show the lady that he has, hm-m, to offer her. Well, if it is wearing at this moment trousers or jeans. Conversely, a woman who takes the defensive position of the forward-sexual men, compress, or cross-legged.
Playing with clothes. For men this means the amended tie with a secret prayer that you will notice this movement. Even he can smooth out the hair, pull up his jacket, check the location of the lapels. But when a man is playing with the buttons on his jacket, most likely, he was nervous, plus demonstrates subconscious desire to undress for you. The next stage - sublating jacket and placing hands on hips. If he had done all this, it means that he already sees himself in your shoes under the bed.
Playing with hair. To show their sympathy, the woman makes a movement with his head to throw away the hair from the face, especially if they are long. Also, for enticing it may simply hand recline hair. The same signal is sent and licking her lips. By the way, men also like to smarten up: a woman never gives himself the trouble to calculate how many times a man in a conversation with it smooths or vice versa, bristling their hair.
Voyeurism. Man is openly clear that he sees the woman's body, stopping to look the most beautiful parts. Ladies, do not flatter himself: he automatically scanned your figure in the first second he saw you. Now it is important to let you know that he considers you as a sexual partner.
Crossing the legs. If the toes of her shoes interlocutor pointed at you, he / she is definitely interested in you. Directing your knee towards the person to whom you are interested in, you thereby demonstrating the freedom of communication. Particularly captivating poses is when a woman sits, tucking his feet under him, and bared her knees: this is the strongest evidence, that she wants a man to take more decisive action.
Playing with cylindrical objects. Both men and woman in the excited state, will definitely find a glass or cup, even a fork to stroke, rub her fingers. Men cylindrical objects resemble the woman's breasts, women - of the man's pride. Woman's wrist has always been considered one of the erogenous zones. When a woman is interested in a man, she will try to keep hands and wrists in his field of vision.
Touching the face. If a person is interested, he would keep touching his chin, his ears and cheeks. This does not mean, as many believe, that people subconsciously fixing the lies. This is a combination of nervous and autoerotic activities. When we were in somebody, our lips and lower face become very sensitive to stimulation. If you smoke, you'll begin inhaling more often. If you drink, you'll be doing more sips. You are touching your lips, you feel like it, besides the other person know that a kiss is not far off.
Leading hand. If a man is holding you by the elbow or shoulder, this is a good sign. First, this is a polite way to lead you through the crowd. Secondly, because he is convinced that you will not lose. Thirdly, it will frighten off other invaders on you, because you already have a man beside her. Plus many casual touches ... In short, it is a positive gesture.
It offers you a sweater or coat. Few men would be happy if she would return from a meeting in someone's jacket. Even without him, she would have died from hypothermia. Men give their jacket or sweater, because it protects, sexual and proprietorial gesture. He says, "What is mine is yours (and vice versa). First, this thing smells to them, then it will smell like you. And finally, he has a reason to show up on your horizon again - at least in order to pick up their property.
As you know, men and women use a wide range of gestures in the process of courtship. Most gestures doing unconsciously, purely by reflex. The success of romantic relationships with the opposite sex depends on how you are able to delicately give signals and perceive the ones that sent to you.
Raised eyebrows. When we see an attractive object for us human, our eyebrows begin raising and falling. If this person also feels drawn, his eyebrows are also beginning to jump up and down. This movement is about a fifth of a second, but it is always and everywhere, at any age, from a representative of either sex. The fact that raised eyebrows make eyes with a review, and the eye itself - bright, attractive and open. This "shooting" eyes easily slips from sight, but if you catch it, the guarantee of sympathy to you one hundred percent. And if the intention is to lengthen the period of "shot" even one second, then a nice object you are more likely to get your "message".
Slightly opened lips. If you liked the other person, his / her lips slightly open automatically at a time when you meet eyes.
Slightly expanded nostrils. Raised eyebrows, parted lips and dilated nostrils - within reason - give the person an open friendly expression. In the excited state and indicates the appearance of redness on the cheeks.
Obviously, if you met the subject with bulging eyes, protruding jaw and swollen nostrils, it's not good. But if a man listens to a woman with smooth brow and calm, slightly hooded eyes, this is also a bad sign: most likely, he is bored.
Standing at attention. It is understood Hmm, that man is right, squaring his shoulders, plunging the stomach, then he tries to show itself in all its glory. If he leans forward to listen to a woman, it is doubly good.
Feet shoulder-width apart. This is not a bad education, it is a sign of sexual affection. And it does not depend on whether a person is sitting or standing. Men often strive to sit down, legs wide apart: so often they show the lady that he has, hm-m, to offer her. Well, if it is wearing at this moment trousers or jeans. Conversely, a woman who takes the defensive position of the forward-sexual men, compress, or cross-legged.
Playing with clothes. For men this means the amended tie with a secret prayer that you will notice this movement. Even he can smooth out the hair, pull up his jacket, check the location of the lapels. But when a man is playing with the buttons on his jacket, most likely, he was nervous, plus demonstrates subconscious desire to undress for you. The next stage - sublating jacket and placing hands on hips. If he had done all this, it means that he already sees himself in your shoes under the bed.
Playing with hair. To show their sympathy, the woman makes a movement with his head to throw away the hair from the face, especially if they are long. Also, for enticing it may simply hand recline hair. The same signal is sent and licking her lips. By the way, men also like to smarten up: a woman never gives himself the trouble to calculate how many times a man in a conversation with it smooths or vice versa, bristling their hair.
Voyeurism. Man is openly clear that he sees the woman's body, stopping to look the most beautiful parts. Ladies, do not flatter himself: he automatically scanned your figure in the first second he saw you. Now it is important to let you know that he considers you as a sexual partner.
Crossing the legs. If the toes of her shoes interlocutor pointed at you, he / she is definitely interested in you. Directing your knee towards the person to whom you are interested in, you thereby demonstrating the freedom of communication. Particularly captivating poses is when a woman sits, tucking his feet under him, and bared her knees: this is the strongest evidence, that she wants a man to take more decisive action.
Playing with cylindrical objects. Both men and woman in the excited state, will definitely find a glass or cup, even a fork to stroke, rub her fingers. Men cylindrical objects resemble the woman's breasts, women - of the man's pride. Woman's wrist has always been considered one of the erogenous zones. When a woman is interested in a man, she will try to keep hands and wrists in his field of vision.
Touching the face. If a person is interested, he would keep touching his chin, his ears and cheeks. This does not mean, as many believe, that people subconsciously fixing the lies. This is a combination of nervous and autoerotic activities. When we were in somebody, our lips and lower face become very sensitive to stimulation. If you smoke, you'll begin inhaling more often. If you drink, you'll be doing more sips. You are touching your lips, you feel like it, besides the other person know that a kiss is not far off.
Leading hand. If a man is holding you by the elbow or shoulder, this is a good sign. First, this is a polite way to lead you through the crowd. Secondly, because he is convinced that you will not lose. Thirdly, it will frighten off other invaders on you, because you already have a man beside her. Plus many casual touches ... In short, it is a positive gesture.
It offers you a sweater or coat. Few men would be happy if she would return from a meeting in someone's jacket. Even without him, she would have died from hypothermia. Men give their jacket or sweater, because it protects, sexual and proprietorial gesture. He says, "What is mine is yours (and vice versa). First, this thing smells to them, then it will smell like you. And finally, he has a reason to show up on your horizon again - at least in order to pick up their property.
четверг, 25 марта 2010 г.
Get married with foreigner
If the "Soviet" time of our women could not even dream about to marry a foreigner, now almost any Our country has a real opportunity to marry a foreigner. Moreover, rossiyanki are very popular among Europeans,: and can lodge itself, and mental and households do not disdain, and children are prepared not only to nurse after 35 years (as is usually done on a career-oriented Western Queens).
Indeed, today the Russian beauties may go get married with foreigner and that's who of them will be able to decorate our lives? Of course, the choice of a spouse - a purely personal matter, but there is such a thing as national character traits that give us some idea about the features of men from different countries.
And that's who of them will be able to decorate our lives? Of course, the choice of a spouse - a purely personal matter, but there is such a thing as national character traits that give us some idea about the features of men from different countries. Fashion Spring-Summer 2010-2011 Thou shalt speak, look, dear, what a dress, but he says that this item is not in your family budget, and in general this brand is not its level. And the topic is closed. If you can not live without a clear plan and an example of the order themselves, the marriage with a German - this is what you need.
It is quite another - men from Italy. They are at the forefront of emotion rather than hard calculation. Italians are very sociable, loves to have fun, prone to romantic gestures and actions. They are showering their избранниц flowers, gifts and compliments literally from head to toe. And about sexuality Italians are legendary! But a hot temper all the time pulling them to the adventure, that is, in terms of Zagulov are no better than ours, "native" men. The second feature of the Italian men - a deep dependence on the mothers. In general, respect for the mother of his - this is not a vice, but agree, sisters-in-law is not all that easy to get along, and her husband, an Italian will always be on the side of his mother.
French men are strong on the part of the subtle flirtation, but not all women like that elect desperately "flirting" with each of her friend. The French really love to give to their ladies fine perfumes, but this is the most expensive gift that you live to see them. They appreciate feminine beauty, so you have to constantly monitor themselves, to understand the subtleties in the concept of fashion and do Fshionable women's haircut Even if you do not like. In addition, the French are proud of their education and erudition, so God forbid you confuse Hegel with Babel.
Equally high demands on the level of education and culture put forward to his potential brides and the British. In addition, they are very proud traditions of his country and his family pedigree, and are more scrupulous in regard to etiquette. They appreciate the "personal space", so even when you are alone with her cavalier, be prepared for the existence of some traditional conventions. For example, in British families are not made to complain about each other's life difficulties, because in England take to demonstrate that all the "OK".
How to make a compliment?
So it created the people what they love praise. Deservedly or undeservedly, but always a pleasure when you give their consent, and that even more pleasant - a delight. That is why, long ago wise men were invented compliments. And, of course, the most expresses praise girls. This sweet, angelic and fascinating creatures.
Admit it, girls deserve the compliments. I do not know good or bad, but modern men often forget about it. Surf the situation, stand out - Dari girls to positive emotions, let them feel like queens. And once the queen she will feel only with you, it is easy to guess with whom she will share the royal couch =)
The most interesting thing to praise a girl can be nearly everything. Here is a list:
- Head: hair, hair, eyelashes, eyes, nose, smile, teeth, jaws
- Body: posture, physique, figure, shoulders, chest, belly, butt
- Hands: skin, fingers, manicure, grooming.
- Legs: gait, hips, knees, legs, feet, pedicure.
Misc: style, actions, manners, thoughts, intentions, beliefs, skills, quality, etc.
As you can see, the list is absolutely inexhaustible. Now let's talk about how to make compliments. Remember, compliments should be smart and to express its views about it, or at least keep her secret thoughts.
Examples:
- You have an unusual hairstyle
- Magnetic glance
- Soft Skin
- This dress emphasizes your femininity
- Brave act
- Pleasant voice
- One can see that you have good taste
- Charming figure
- Majestic posture
- Nice smile
- Обалденно look!
- Lovely eyes
- Interesting walk, as if you'll never get
- Great tan, etc.
Honor the classical literature of the nineteenth century - an inexhaustible source of compliments every day.
And finally, some tips on what not to do when it comes to compliments:
- The first and most important thing. A compliment must be sincere, you should really admire what you have in her praise. So find a girl that you are most struck by it, and find this a highlight and praise. Sincerely, honestly, putting the soul.
- Second, and no less important. Do not praise the things girls apart from most girls. Because the phrase "cool sweater" you praise the designer, not a girl. The phrase "cool sweater, you have great taste" will be more pleasant because it is aimed at the girl.
- Third and still most important. Do not be afraid to praise the "socially forbidden places" - chest, the priest. From personal experience I say, girls are responding positively to the phrase "Do you kick-ass chest". The main thing is to tell a compliment to natural and relaxed.
Ways for improve the quality of communication
In life there are often situations where you have to communicate with people that you are not interested, or even worse - annoying you. This may be the chief at work, or the dean of the institute, an ensign in the army or just a neighbor with a trash can.
Surely you were cases when you are familiar with the man and burn a couple of phrases such as "Hello. - Hello. - Classroom weather. - Yeah, and go further, not knowing what else, besides the weather, talk to the remaining seven bus stops. In order not to lose the remaining time wasted, pointless looking out the window, try to develop your communication skills. Practice.
Experienced psychologists have developed several techniques that will help you develop the habit of communicating with people, regardless of who they are. Follow the techniques below, you are easily able to win the interlocutor and keep the conversation on any subject, whether breeding rabbits or engineering problem in third world countries.
And if I know nothing about rabbits? - You will ask. No problem. The fact that out of all that they talk to, we hear only about twenty percent, and remember even less - only seven per cent. The remaining information about the interlocutor - a tone of voice, emotion, posture, pace of conversation and similar non-verbal factors. It is on them and be guided in the conversation. Let's get started:
1. Podstroysya a pose.
Adjustment under the posture allows the show to the other party that you have with him is something in common, so it will be comfortable with you and the conversation goes easier. By the way, notice that when communicating with friends and relatives just your posture and general gestures often coincide. This happens unconsciously, simply because you are interested in each other. The same interest can be achieved and intentional mirroring poses interlocutor.
2. Verbal or verbal adjustment.
In the adjustment of this type, there are several pravil.Vo First, do not argue over trifles, try to avoid in the conversation the words "no," but "," disagree "," you're wrong ", etc. Learn to accept and respect the views sobesednika.Vo Second, use words-parasites interlocutor. For example, if a person instead of the word "money" says "loot" - use the same word. This again will create the necessary level of confidence in you.
3. Mikropodstroyki.
Learn to pick up the tiniest gestures rights, such as blinking, the movement of pupils, the characteristics of voice and try to copy them. Note that although the catch and repeat micromotions another person is difficult enough, the success copying gives a stunning effect. The fact is that in most cases we do not control yourself (I think, you are unlikely to ponder over when you blink =)), and acting unconsciously. Repetition of such micromotions not noticeable brain, but captured the subconscious of another person and creates the necessary level of comfort to us.
4. Adjustment under his breath.
This adjustment - a kind mikropodstroek, and limited to what you need to breathe at the same rate, in which breathing is your companion. Breathing is difficult to grasp, so remember - a man says you exhale, seize this moment and breathe with him.
General comments on the adjustment.
For beginners adjustment is given is difficult because of some peculiarities. Remember, you must adapt, rather than mimic, to create a comfortable environment, but not stupid to copy all the motions. It is not necessary to repeat every detail, capture the main thing. At first it is rather difficult, but with practice you get the hang of finding a common language with absolutely anyone.
5. Be honest with a man.
Falsity felt people (especially girls) are very good. Remember how you congratulated the teacher on the first сентября flowers that you lectured the parents "because we need!". Not pleasant to you or her. Learn sincerely interested in the man. How? In absolutely every person can find something enjoyable or, at least, interesting. Whether it's breast size or the ability to make origami cranes. Now mind extend to the whole man, it is perhaps the only positive quality, smile and say something good. Sincerely interested in the problem of people who sincerely try to help, and you will have another loyal friend.
6. Bring to automaticity.
Work on yourself, train communication with people, bringing this skill to automatic - and you will be welcome at any party. At first, it is difficult, so do not parsya, if something does not work. Test-and, eventually, you will communicate with the person, not even thinking about what you're doing, how and why. All will be obtained by itself.
The above list - an incomplete list of tools that will help you build effective communication with man. Remember that the ability to properly build communication - one of the most important skills a seducer of women. Having learned to have a companion, you will be much easier to drag a woman into bed and, if necessary - to avoid squabbles with her husband, =), so use the above techniques, practice. When dealing with people, you surely will find some new ways that will be useful in the future. Do not be afraid to practice and try, before you expect to see dramatic results.
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